Sexual Relationships

Adolescence is a time of curiosity and sexual exploration. With the onset of puberty, adolescents find themselves engaging in activities arising from strong desires, curiosity, and attractions. Such desires and needs for intimacy can be expressed in several ways, including physically or emotionally. It is normal to be curious about sexual feelings and desires. However, it is also important to know to assert your boundaries and not be influenced by the perspectives or actions of your peers to engage in actions that you are not ready for. It is important to remember that any type of sexual activity needs to be consensual. It is NOT okay for anyone to force or coerce you to engage in any type of sexual behaviour.

Types of Sexual Activity

When individuals refer to the term “sex”, it generally means vaginal intercourse, but it has other types too. Any sexual activity often, but not always, results in orgasm (for one or both partners). Orgasm is the height of sexual activity, often referred to as climax, which is felt as an intensely pleasurable release of tension in the body and the genitals.

Vaginal sex

Vaginal intercourse refers to the insertion of a penis into a partner’s vagina. During vaginal intercourse, chances are high that pregnancy can occur, if a sperm (contained in semen) fertilizes an egg (released by the ovary). This can happen if semen is introduced into the vagina, which occurs when protection (e.g., condoms) is not used. Using contraceptive measures (birth control) can reduce the chances of pregnancy and some can prevent sexually transmitted infections (STIs).

 Oral sex

Oral sex involves using the mouth or tongue on a partner’s genitals to stimulate pleasure. The exchange of fluids through this type of sexual activity can also transmit infections (STIs).

 Anal sex

Anal sex involves the insertion of a penis into another person’s anus (butthole). It can also lead to STIs.

 Masturbation

Masturbation refers to the touching of one’s genitals for pleasure.

What is Sexual Arousal?

Sexual arousal or “being turned on” is a natural response of the body to sexual thoughts, feelings, and impulses. It is your body’s way of preparing to engage in sexual activity and reproduction. It can happen while engaging in sexual activity or even with having sexual thoughts or feelings. With the onset of puberty, you may experience various physical and emotional changes associated with sexual arousal. Some of them include: